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By Lisa Dante
Red is an undeniable power color. It’s strong and striking and gets your attention. Red is for energy, passion and even danger. No wonder it’s the color most associated with Valentine’s Day. After all, it is the color of the heart. The celebration of love got me thinking about love in general. I think there’s a song that goes, “What the world needs now is love, sweet love. No, not just for some, but for everyone.”
The special day of love, celebrated on February 14th, should include everyone, not just those that are madly in love. Maybe you just want to express feelings of friendship, or perhaps you simply have a sweet tooth and want to treat yourself to flowers and chocolate or some other special treat.
On V’day you might start scrolling through social media and see all of the flowers and candy that friends and loved ones have received. But have you ever wondered if some of them might have sent them to themselves?
There’s certainly nothing wrong with that!
The gift will be special because it’s from someone who knows you
best—you!
Every so often I have to remind myself that I’m responsible for my own happiness. I realize that there are many things in life that are way beyond our control, but I believe Valentine’s Day should include everyone, not just couples in relationships. It should be a celebration of all forms of romantic and platonic love. I like to think of it as a day of kindness that reminds people that they matter.
I realize in some instances some people choose to be single or are simply not interested in a relationship. In any case, if you find yourself solo, be your own secret admirer. Pamper yourself and plan a date with single friends. Brighten someone else’s day!
Put Those Petals To Good Use
If you do receive roses, whether a gift from your true love or a treat you’ve given to yourself, try a rose petal bath. Rose water soothes the skin and the petals give off a natural calming scent that has the power to melt away the day behind you. Plus, you’ll feel like a queen! You can add coconut milk or lavender to elevate the experience. (Coconut milk softens your skin and lavender deepens your relaxation.)
Now for your fashion game plan. It’s really quite simple. Choose a pop of red! You can go head to toe red or maybe just an accent. It’s up to you! I love a red boot or shoe with a neutral toned outfit. Maybe you’re just going for red lips and nails. That works too!
Don’t forget about all shades of pink, from the softest pastels to neon brights.
The bottom line is, do what makes you happy.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
